PSI-power coupled with good practical advice can make you a better and more attentive lover. It can help you choose the right partner and establish better relationships. It can also help you deal with loved ones and relatives at home and teach you to avoid the pitfalls of emotional entanglement. While doing this it will also teach you more things about yourself as well as your partner, which should bring about a better understanding for future relationships.
Love is one of the most powerful and positive forces in the world. From the moment a baby is born and its umbilical cord is severed, it receives a fresh injection of the life-giving force that is popularly called 'mother love.' Without it, a baby can suffer serious consequences. One of Britain's foremost baby experts, Dr Hugh Jolly, who, before his death in 1986, was Physician in charge of Paediatrics at the world famous Charing Cross Hospital, recognised the 'instant telepathy' between a mother and her child. Having spent a lifetime studying the behaviour of mothers and babies, he was convinced of the invisible PSI bonding that took place in that charged moment of birth. Babies who were fortunate enough to have this love, accompanied by cuddling and tender physical touch, thrived, unlike their unfortunate and pitiable counterparts who were deprived of a mother's love.
Dr Jolly, who was known as the Dr Spock of Britain, said that this telepathic bonding was a gift of nature and would continue through the child's growth, although as its intelligence increased and it gained verbal skills and learned body language, a new form of communication techniques would gradually replace the PSI communication which nature had bestowed on the child.
The fascinating thing to remember is that the original power to communicate love by means of telepathy was never permanently lost. Certainly the baby will stop using PSI just as its mother did when she was little, but then look how quickly the mother regained it when giving birth to her own child! Now why, when it is possible to use this powerful force, do we let it lie dormant for so long?
The essential ingredient of love is communication. Even if two people do not speak to each other there can still be communication in the form of body language and physical attraction. The more successful you are as a communicator the more likely you are to succeed in the love stakes. Learning to interpret the signs, learning to 'read' people and understand 'feelings' is all part of the PSI-factor of love.
You need see no greater proof of the power of love than in nature itself. I once had the sad experience of seeing a graceful bird, a swan, pine for a lost mate until it gave up hope of ever seeing its partner again and tragically died of a broken heart. Domestic animals have been known to pine to death for their owners and most pet lovers can tell stories about the amazing animal telepathy they have encountered.
Recently, an actor friend of mine who appeared in the classic film Out of Africa with Robert Redford and Meryl Streep, had an important show to do which took him away from his home for about a year. He was very fond of his black cat with which he had an amazing PSI bond, and rather than board the cat, he asked a friend to mind it. After he had been away a few months, he returned to his home to collect some clothes and was there only a couple of hours when his cat, which was living some miles away during his absence, unexpectedly appeared on his doorstep wanting to be let in. Until that time, the cat had been quite content to remain with his friend. The remarkable Welsh sheepdogs whose affection for their masters is legendary, are known to develop an uncanny telepathy in their bid to please. I have seen dog trials where communication between man and beast is almost entirely telepathic.
Sexual attraction
Sexual attraction, if we are honest, is probably one of the first 'moves' in the game of love. You must learn to accept that fact whether you are beautiful, attractive, or plain. Only then can you begin to work on improving your chances of success.
Obviously, character and personality play a very large role but that comes into it later because most of us are primarily captivated by the best display in the shop window.
As with all rules, there are exceptions, the main one being that of the person with 'star status.' There, looks can be quite irrelevant and the 'image' is often the thing that first attracts, rather than the physical features. Those people who are fortunate enough to have both are either very lucky or very tired!
I am often asked about my own experience in these matters and am prepared to forgo my modesty for the sake of instruction. As a young man I did not have much trouble attracting women because through good fortune of birth I happened to have what are considered reasonable looks and I was tall. Even though I was not well-known then, I could use my PSI power to attract women. I knew how to engage their interest by concentrating my energies and establishing strong eye contact. Once we began talking I found most of them were captivated by PSI, especially if I demonstrated some of my powers. When I became publicly well-known the response of the opposite sex was overwhelming. Wherever I went women were falling over themselves to meet me and their fascination was never-ending.
That kind of adoration is quite a difficult thing for a young man to cope with and I must confess that I happily made love to many women. With all that experience it became very easy to tell just by looking into a woman's eyes whether or not she would be willing to go to bed with me.
On my first trip to Europe from Israel, I had an affair with the wife of a German industrialist. She was as rich as she was beautiful. She wanted to spoil me as I had never been spoiled before. I had sports cars at my disposal, butlers serving my every need, heated swimming-pools and luxury cottages in the beautiful countryside just awaiting my call. It was a far cry from home where I had lived in a cramped flat and driven a motor scooter. After our affair had finished, countless other ladies were ready to step into her shoes. Women had a great fascination for my powers. They wondered what it would be like to sleep with Uri Geller. I can't imagine what they had in mind for while I was quite happy to bend metals and demonstrate my telepathic powers, I was not prepared to experiment with the human anatomy! But back to serious matters, I had learned that PSI-FORCE had given me a very powerful weapon which to many women was an instant aphrodisiac - fame and fortune.
Let me give a note of warning here: relationships like those I have described above can be very empty. For a young man sowing his wild oats, a fling can be fun in the short term but like most normal people I wanted something more out of a relationship. I needed a permanent, stable, and loving relationship which I have since found with Hanna, my wife.
I realise too that most of the women I knew as a carefree bachelor were more interested in the 'image' and 'fantasy' than they were in me as a person. Again, I do not feel there is anything wrong with 'fantasising' on a temporary basis but it is certainly not the thing on which you can properly build a lasting life together.
Nevertheless, most of us fantasise about prospective partners. To people we find attractive, we tend to attribute all sorts of qualities we admire. Many women are attracted to tall, lean and handsome men. They see qualities in these ideal physical types which they associate with strength and leadership and intelligence. In reality of course, it may be nothing like this but our views are heavily influenced by traditional 'images' of physical types.
The converse of this is true as well. If we have a romantic intellectual image of someone, then we will give them a body to fit. Take the English poet John Keats as an example. He was nearly as much loved in America as he was in Britain and many of his romantic poems were inspired in London's Hampstead, where he once lived.
Anyone who has wandered around Hampstead Heath on a lazy summer's day cannot help but visualise the poet writing an ode under one of the centuries-old trees in this beautiful and historic park. What physical image would we give this tragic figure who died a miserable death from TB? A traditional one that people have described to me is of a tall, sensitive young man with a handsome, lean face. They imagine him wearing a cloak as he strode purposefully across the heath. The image is further compounded with the view that he would enchant friends and admirers with language so poetic that it could attract the nightingale. The correct image of the man is far different: Keats was short, stout and abrasive to the point of sometimes being quite objectionable. An image his admiring followers a hundred and fifty years later do not wish to recognise.
I am not recommending that we stop fantasising about our heroes or heroines, or the people we love or think we would like to love. All I am suggesting is that we do recognise that there may be a fantasy involved, so that when the reality becomes all too apparent it does not bring us back to earth with a hurtful jolt. No one likes to be bitterly disappointed.
The cosmos of love
When we meet a partner we always look for indicators of love and compatibility. Astronomical calculations predicting personal characteristics in your partner - astrology - are common. Were you born under the same star sign? Is your star sign compatible with that of your partner? Do the same numbers influence your love life? Whether or not we apply these signs in a serious way is questionable. If we love the person enough, we will somehow explain or rationalise an unfavourable star sign and hope the relationship survives. Nevertheless, we continue to look for reinforcement. For my part, I can recommend no better reinforcement than the application of PSI and good practical sense. It has worked for me and I am sure it will work for you.
Relationships
Learn to evaluate your own relationships through PSI meditation and self-analysis. Here's how you do it. Relax your body and clear your mind of all thoughts. Try and keep this state of relaxation for some minutes and then draw the word 'RELATIONSHIP' on a screen in your mind. Now visualise the people or person with whom you are having a relationship. Start with the most important relationship first and ask yourself relevant questions which can also include any doubts you might have. Here are some suggestions.
1. What am I looking for in this relationship? Be honest with yourself. Do you want this relationship to be long-term or short-term? Is it a relationship of convenience or one of true love or merely companionship? Your expectations from any relationship will vary according to your particular classification. How much of yourself do you want to give in this relationship? Are you prepared to accept the other person for what he or she is? It is much easier to put up with other people's bad habits if you know the relationship will not go on for very long. Now try and visualise yourself with the other person. Project your mind and imagine how you and the other person would be seen by a third party. Would they see you as a compatible and happy couple?
2. Is the relationship a happy one? Think back on all your previous relationships and determine whether the present one is better or just the same. If you are not happy, ask yourself why and see if you can think of ways of improving it or whether it would be better to end it and start afresh with someone new.
3. Am I on the same wavelength as my partner? Ask your partner to try some of the tests in this book and see how closely the answers resemble yours. Does your partner or friend like doing the same things as you? Are your interests the same or similar? Are your jobs and your aims compatible? If they are not then your relationship may suffer or, alternatively, it may explain things if you are not getting on so well. Make sure your partner tries the tests involving mental telepathy.
4. How would I see myself if I were in my partner's or friend's shoes? Psych yourself to change roles. You become your partner and imagine how you are seen in the relationship. What faults do you see? What improvements could you make?
5. Is my 'image' of my partner a real one? Are you fantasising about the qualities of your partner? Do you really know him or her well enough? Does the image portray the real self?
6. What is your ideal of a partner or friend? Ask yourself what your ideal partner would look like. Would he or she be tall, dark, blonde, or short? What other physical qualities would you look for in an ideal partner? What interests would you like your partner to have? What standard of education? Then look back and examine your past relationships and see how close you have got to your ideal. Ask yourself whether you think you would make the ideal partner or whether you consider you have shortcomings, and if so, what are they?
7. Are your astrological signs compatible? Does your partner share the same birth sign as you? Are your stars compatible? If you have looked at other signs like numbers or tarot cards, is there a conflict?
8. How well do you communicate with your partner? What is the level of your communication? Do you find it easy or is it difficult? Are you sometimes able to communicate without talking and know what the other wants? If you can, then there is a very strong PSI link and the chances are yours will be a successful relationship.
9. Do you harbour a resentment within your relationship? Is there something he or she has done which you have either not fully discussed or perhaps you have refused to discuss and are holding back? Perhaps your partner has an annoying habit and although you try your best to ignore it, it still aggravates you. If that is the case your relationship will suffer and with negatives of this nature it is best to air them before resentment overcomes your positive feelings and breaks up the relationship.
10. Would you prefer to end the relationship but do not have the heart to tell your partner? This is where you must really think carefully and be totally honest with yourself. Many relationships are continued through habit and not through personal choice. Some people find it easier to coast along in a relationship than to face the truth that it has floundered. Learn to read the signs. Do you telephone that person as much as you used to? Do you see them as often? Do you think about them? Concentrate your mind on these questions. Meditate on your relationship and look for the PSI factors which will tell you how you really feel about the other person. If other questions or doubts occur to you, write them down and ask yourself or your partner. Be honest in your relationship. If you cannot improve it then there is no point in continuing something which has ceased to be a pleasure.
How PSI can make you a better lover
PSI power can make you a better lover. I will teach you, through a series of fun PSI games, how to laugh and love with your partner through the medium of PSI. These new games are guaranteed to bring you closer together as well as teach you to understand each other better and to get on the same wavelength.
Before each game, do the relaxing exercises I have outlined. Help each other to relax. Either sit comfortably together in a sofa or your bed, and close your eyes and see if you can concentrate on the same television screen in your minds. You might find the signals between you are so strong that you will receive each other's telepathic signals before you have a chance to start the games.
Psi love games Colours: Start with a simple game of colours. Cut out squares of paper and write down the names of, say, six colours. Red to symbolise passion and sensuality; White for purity Purple for health and peace; Blue for intelligence and happiness; Gold for ambition; and Yellow for uncertainty. You can use these cards in several different ways. One of you can hold a coloured card in your hand and telepathically convey the mood you feel to your partner. He or she must then read your mind. Alternatively, you can lay all the cards face down without seeing in which order the colours appear and then each of you tries to choose the colour RED or any other colour you care to nominate. Hold out little rewards for your partner if he or she reads all six cards correctly. Alternatively, you can reward each other every time your partner reads your mind. I will leave the reward you give each other to your own imagination.
Messages of Love: Write down six different coded messages which you and your lover use as an intimate expression of love. It might be the name of a certain part of your anatomy, it can be a pet name you use for each other, or suggestions either of you makes. One of you selects a card and then attempts to transfer the message to the other partner. If the identification is positive the correct suggestion could form part of the reward!
PSI-tease: This is a great game for people who are married or living together and can add spice and excitement to their love life. Tease your wife or partner with this PSI game which you can play in your bedroom. Your partner is blindfolded and made to sit in a chair facing away from you. Tell your partner to relax completely and make sure he or she cannot see you. Now if you are wearing the blindfold try and imagine the TV screen in your mind and picture the room with your partner in it. The partner not wearing the blindfold can now take the initiative and begin to tease. Take off an item of clothing and ask your partner what it is you have removed. If he or she guesses correctly, carry on with the game. The next thing you might want to do is to adopt a yoga position on the floor or sit in the bed. See if your partner can picture this. Each time he or she guesses correctly you can reinforce the PSI game with a kiss. You can eventually remove most of your clothes - or put on different ones and see if your partner can visualise what you are wearing or not wearing. It might be suspenders and stockings that you have put on, or it might be something that will satisfy another fantasy your lover has about you. Whatever it is, make sure that you surprise your partner and reward him or her adequately if the answer given is correct.
Another intimate love game involves thinking of six different things your partner really likes. It could be a back massage, running your fingers through his or her hair, or just holding hands. Challenge your partner to do one of those things at a time and see if he or she has correctly received your intimate desires.
Love signals
Positive thinking and PSI power will help you attract a partner if you plan your approach carefully. Understanding communication and body language is of enormous importance in making the right impression. Most first encounters with the opposite sex result in empty chat but an interested awareness in the physical qualities of the other party. If you feel you have physical shortcomings, then make the most of nice clothes and immaculate grooming. That will more than make up for physical inadequacies. Try and meet the person you are interested in on several occasions. The more contact people have with others the more interested they become in one another. Learn to read the signals the other party is giving you. If the other person is a man, try and find out if he is more interested in you as a sex symbol or as a person. Look at the way he views other women. Stereotypes are easily recognised. The man who makes a play for women with big breasts is normally an extrovert and sporty type. A 'bottoms' man is likely to be tidy and neat, an accountant perhaps, and a 'leg' men will be loud, sociable and an extrovert.
'Read' whet he is saying to you. Work out if it is a chat line or whether he is genuine. If you show no interest, see how quickly he moves to another lady and tries the same line.
If you are a man you must observe the signals of the opposite sex just as carefully. Is she gesturing and posturing with her lips and body? Is she giving you eye contact or does she look away and act bored when you speak? Her body language will let you know whether or not she is interested in you. If she is warm and accepting and looks into your eyes while smiling, you may be impressing her with your presence. If she touches your hand, brushes her hair and makes other 'preening' gestures while talking to you there is a good chance she will want to speak to you again.
When you want to show a woman that what you want is something more than conversation, try and psych her with love. Look into her eyes and tell her in your mind that you want to kiss her and make tender love to her. If you say that, all your thoughts will reach her. But do it gently, let the unspoken words gently float into her mind, as though you are singing your love or reciting a beautiful poem. Don't frighten her. You will know immediately if she responds. This is the power of telepathy in love. It is a harmonious connection and it is the way a lot of people fall in love at 'first sight.' There is a joining of the minds. By psyching yourself mentally the whole body reacts and if the feelings are right you can cause a chemical explosion which will bring you both together. Often this is described as a chemistry of the minds. In fact it is PSI power triggering a chain reaction of physical impulses.
But I must stress that your physical self plays an equally important part. You must be clean and presentable and it helps if you can attract the other person with nice clothes or good make-up and coiffured hair, especially in the initial stages where looks still count. Afterwards, as I have already said, you must concentrate on personality and effective communication. That is the discovery stage where each partner wants to impress the other while at the same time learning all about the other party. Think of all the PSI positives at this stage. Both men and women love to be reassured that they are liked and are seen as being attractive. Small gifts like flowers, chocolates or a short personal note or letter are a very effective way of conveying this feeling.
PSI guide to loving: There is no reason for lovers to rush that very special act that brings them into spiritual and physical harmony. Love is not just a physical act. To reach a better understanding and a more fulfilling sex life you need to be mentally alert to each other's needs and desires. Before making love I suggest you first go through a process of PSI meditation. It does not take long. Do it while you are cuddling. Clear your mind and just concentrate on your physical presence. After relaxing, think about your role you will be playing as a lover. Try and imagine the beautiful things you can do to one another. If you like, talk about it. Project yourselves on a different astral level. Imagine you are both riding the universe. Transport yourselves away from earth, metaphysically speaking of course. Do this successfully and your love life will never be the same again!