"Understanding of the self only arises in relationship, in watching yourself in relationship to people, ideas, and things; to trees, the earth, and the world around you and within you. Relationship is the mirror in which the self is revealed."

J. Krishnamurti, Krishnamurti, A Biography by Pupul Jayakar, p.142


"Does not my contact with you reveal my own state of being if I am aware, if I am alert enough to be conscious of my own reaction in relationship? Relationship is really a process of self-revelation, which is a process of self-knowledge..."

The First and Last Freedom, p.179


"Life is relationship. To be is to be related and without relationship there is no life."

The First and Last Freedom, p.186


"Through you, I escape from myself; and when I am thrown back upon myself, being fearful of my own state, I become angry. Anger takes many forms: disappointment, resentment, bitterness, jealousy, and so on."

Commentaries on Living, First Series, p.71