Stephen Cave: The 4 stories we tell ourselves about death TEDxBratislava · 15:33 · Posted Dec 2013 Subtitles available in 22 languages Philosopher Stephen Cave begins with a dark but compelling question: When did you first realize you were going to die? And even more interestingly: Why do we humans so often resist the inevitability of death? In a fascinating talk Cave explores four narratives — common across civilizations — that we tell ourselves "in order to help us manage the terror of death."